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Terms of Service

Last updated July 2026.


Adults only

FORBDN is for people aged 18 or older. By using the site you confirm you are an adult, and that it is lawful for you to view material of this nature where you live.

Before the store opens

The house is preparing. Today the site sells nothing and charges nothing: the checkout is a preview, prices shown are provisional, and the only thing you can truly claim is your first letter, free. When the store opens, orders and subscriptions will be governed by the terms below.

The subscription, when live

  • The Monthly Ritual bills monthly (or yearly, if chosen) at the price shown at checkout.
  • Cancel any month, effective at the end of the paid period. No exit interviews, no guilt.
  • Shipping is discreet: plain packaging, neutral billing descriptor.
  • If a shipment arrives damaged or goes missing, write to us and we will make it right.

The game itself

Our scenes are fiction: invitations, never instructions. Everything you do with them requires the free, ongoing consent of everyone involved, every time. The safe word is part of the game for a reason. You are responsible for your own choices, your own boundaries, and your own care for each other; the house writes letters, it does not stand in the room.

What is ours

The scenes, the words, the marks, and the art of the house are copyrighted. They are yours to play, keep, and annotate at home, and not to republish, resell, or mass-reproduce.

Fair use of the site

Do not break, probe, scrape, or impersonate the house or its members. We may suspend access that abuses the site or other people.

Liability, plainly

We stand behind what we make and ship. Beyond what the law does not allow us to limit, our liability is capped at what you paid us in the twelve months before the claim.

Law and contact

These terms are governed by the law of the Netherlands. Questions, requests, disputes: write to us or email stan@forbdn.com. We read everything.