Question 1

What is FORBDN, exactly?

Accepted Answer

A ritual for two, in card form. Each sealed scene is self-contained: a cream face to follow, a maroon face to keep. The Monthly Ritual sends a new one to find you each month; single challenges can be bought one at a time.

Question 2

Is it explicit?

Accepted Answer

No. FORBDN is suggestive and atmospheric: heat, not the act. Everything is written with restraint and taste. It is firmly for adults: you must be 18 or older.

Question 3

What do you mean by “meow”?

Accepted Answer

“Meow” is our word for intimacy: the whole knowing thing between two people. It keeps the writing playful and suggestive rather than clinical or crude. More on that in the Journal.

Question 4

Do we need any experience?

Accepted Answer

None. Only curiosity and a shared yes. The cards meet you where you are and let you take exactly as much as you want.

Question 5

Is shipping discreet?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Cards arrive in plain, unbranded outer packaging with a neutral billing descriptor. Nothing on the outside says what’s within.

Question 6

Where do you ship?

Accepted Answer

Shipping regions are expanding. Create an account or unlock the sample and we’ll tell you the moment your country is supported.

Question 7

How long does delivery take?

Accepted Answer

Delivery windows are shown at checkout for your region before you pay. We never hide a cost or a timeline.

Question 8

How does the monthly ritual work?

Accepted Answer

One sealed scene finds you each month: a small, deliberate invitation rather than a pile of cards. Manage everything from your account.

Question 9

Can I skip or pause?

Accepted Answer

Anytime, with no penalty. Skip a month when life is loud; pause when you need to; pick it back up when you’re ready.

Question 10

Can I cancel?

Accepted Answer

Yes, anytime, from your account. No retention mazes, no guilt, just a button that does what it says.

Question 11

What’s in the free sample?

Accepted Answer

Your first sealed scene, unsealed here the moment you turn the key: the same kind of letter the Monthly Ritual sends each month. Enough to feel the pull. A taste, never the whole night.

Question 12

Will you spam me?

Accepted Answer

No spam. No awkwardness. Just the key, and the occasional note worth reading. Unsubscribe in one click, anytime.

Question 13

Do you share my email?

Accepted Answer

Never. Your details are yours. See our Privacy notice for exactly how little we keep and why.

Question 14

How does consent work with the cards?

Accepted Answer

Nothing begins without both people choosing it. Every scene opens with the key card: a safe word, a way to pause, a way to stop, and a check-in for after. The edges you draw together are part of the ritual, never an interruption to it.

Question 15

What if one of us wants to stop?

Accepted Answer

You stop. Immediately, without explanation, with warmth. The safe word ends any scene at once. That is the whole point of having one.

Question 16

Is any of this risky or clinical?

Accepted Answer

FORBDN is about play and connection, not performance or pressure. Where clarity matters for safety, we’re plain and kind. Everywhere else, we keep it suggestive.

Question 17

How private is my account?

Accepted Answer

Private by design. We collect as little as possible, never sell your data, and keep billing and packaging discreet. Read the full Privacy notice for specifics.

Question 18

What about payment details?

Accepted Answer

Card details are handled by our payment processor on their secure form. FORBDN never sees or stores them. We only ever show the last four digits, if anything.

Question 19

Can I get a refund?

Accepted Answer

Unopened, sealed items can be returned within the window shown at checkout, and you can pause or cancel a subscription anytime. For anything that arrives damaged, write to support and we’ll make it right.

Question 20

How do I track my order?

Accepted Answer

Tracking and order history live in your account, and we email updates as your parcel moves. Discreetly, always.

Question 21

Something’s wrong with my order.

Accepted Answer

Write to stan@forbdn.com with your order number and we’ll sort it quickly and kindly.